Child Custody

Child custody battles are often the most emotionally challenging part of a divorce or separation. Understanding what the courts are looking for can help parents better prepare for the process and ensure they present the strongest case for their child’s best interest.

How does the court decide who gets custody?
In child custody cases, courts generally decide between two types of conservatorships:

  • Joint managing conservatorship: Both parents share the responsibility of making key decisions for the child, such as education, medical care, and where the child lives.
  • Sole managing conservatorship: One parent is given the primary right to make these important decisions. The other parent, known as the "possessory conservator," has the right to visitation at designated times but does not make decisions about the child’s upbringing.

The court always aims to act in the best interest of the child. If both parents can cooperate, joint conservatorship is often the default. However, if one parent is deemed unfit or unable to make decisions, the court may grant sole managing conservatorship to the more capable parent.

What are the key factors courts consider in child custody cases?
One of the most significant cases guiding custody decisions is Holly v. Adams (1976), which outlined various factors courts should consider, including:

  1. Physical and emotional needs: Which parent is better equipped to care for the child’s emotional and physical well-being?
  2. Home stability: Courts look for consistency in the child’s living environment, favoring stable homes where the child’s routine won’t be disrupted.
  3. Parenting skills: Which parent demonstrates the ability to provide a structured, nurturing, and safe environment?
  4. Cooperation between parents: Courts prefer parents who can work together to co-parent effectively.
  5. Primary caregiver: Courts may look at who handled most caregiving duties before the separation (e.g., feeding, bathing, doctor visits).

Can a child choose which parent they want to live with?
For older children, courts may consider the child’s preferences regarding which parent they wish to live with. However, the child’s wishes alone would do not determine custody. The court evaluates whether the child’s choice aligns with their overall best interests, considering factors like the parent’s ability to provide emotional support, stability, and a safe environment.
For younger children, the court may appoint attorney ad litem or a custody evaluator to assess the child’s needs and represent their best interests in court.

Can the court consider false allegations of abuse in custody decisions?
Yes, if one parent falsely accuses the other of child abuse, the court may view this as an attempt to manipulate the custody case. This can backfire and result in the other parent being granted primary custody.

What behaviors or conditions will disqualify a parent from custody?
The court will examine the following conditions when determining parental fitness:

  • Substance abuse: Drug or alcohol abuse can seriously harm a parent’s custody case.
  • Physical or emotional abuse: Any evidence of abuse toward the child or another party will negatively impact the parent’s chance of winning custody.
  • Unstable living environment: Frequent moves or an unstable home situation can result in the court favouring the more stable parent.
  • Deviant sexual behaviour: Any inappropriate sexual conduct that may endanger the child is a serious red flag for the court.

What doesn’t the court consider in custody decisions?
Certain factors are prohibited by law from influencing custody decisions:

  • Gender: Courts can’t favour one parent based on their gender. Mothers do not automatically win custody just for being the mother.
  • Marital status: Whether the parents are married does not impact custody.
  • Religion: Courts cannot favor one religion over another unless there’s proof that a parent’s religious practices harm the child.
  • Immigration status: Courts won’t consider immigration status unless it negatively affects the parent’s ability to care for the child.

Child custody cases are complex, and every situation is unique. The courts use a broad range of factors to determine what’s in the best interest of the child. If you’re facing a custody battle, it’s crucial to understand the criteria the court will consider, and it’s always advisable to consult with an attorney to ensure your rights are protected.

If you have questions about your custody case, feel free to contact us for a consultation. You can reach us at 832-919-6595 or email us at Duana@boswelltexaslaw.com. Our team is here to help you navigate your legal rights and prepare for your case.

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